A 40+ woman's take on modern day lifestyle, championing the fact that at this 40+ age we are more alive than ever! This week it's all about busy-ness, boards of vision and bargains! I am asking the question 'Is busy the new black?'
Are we addicted to BUSY-NESS?
Look that's me in the picture, looking a bit mean and moody, or am I just frazzled from being busy?
Years ago, when I gave that look it was deemed as sultry, now I just looked hacked off...perhaps I am!?!
For months now, I have been observing, taking mental notes and coming to a realisation that there is a new addiction on the block and it's called BUSY-NESS
Are you addicted to being busy? Would you prefer to fill your diary with 'things to do' and 'chores to be done' and 'people to drink coffee/prosecco with' rather than have a day of....nothing?
So, here I am, a 40 plusser, who is trying to avoid using the phrase when I introduce myself as a 'busy Mum of two....' like it is a trophy or a modern-day status symbol.
Picture the scene
"Hi, how are you, haven't seen you for ages"
"Yeah, know that feeling"
"Me too, bring on wine o'clock"
Sound familiar??? Or do people do that to me as a way of avoiding engaging in a conversation! Conversation, what's one of them? I prefer to text - Lol
When did BUSY get to be so important? Is it a necesary requirement for day to day living? Is it our intrinsic desire to be people pleasing or are we scared to death of what will happen if we stopped?
Ouch! It's a bit painful to think, so let's return to some funny anecdotes - it might help if you read my earlier blog about not-juggling
The theory according to Clare is that there are different 'busy' personality types, which I have completely fabricated and manufactured for cheap laughs and an attempt to comprehend this new and modern-day concern -after all, aren’t we all croaking it with strokes and heart attacks in this 40 plusser age group #worried #bothered #tooearlytodie. We won’t be busy then!!
DO YOU SUFFER FROM BUSY SYNDROME DISORDER (BSD)?
So what's your BSD personality type? Which one of the below best describes you?
1. Writes lists , speaks lists and lives for lists
2. Says 'Yes' to everything, then adds it to a list
3. Never replies to texts, posts, messages or
WhatsApp as just 'too busy'
1. The ultimate multi-tasker -even they don't know
how busy they are, as they are too busy to realise
2. Spins more plates than a Greek waiter smashes them
3. Sticks their head in the sand when it's all too much
1. Talk about how busy they are 'I am too busy
to tell people how busy I am'
2. Want you to be busy too, so you can talk busy togther,
busy is the new 'black' right?!
3. Complains about having no time but has time to talk,
post and blog about it
THE LAZY BUSY PERSON
1. Tends to look really busy to avoid being
delegated tasks or asked favours
2. When genuinely busy, genuinely hates it
3. Would rather be a cat than a person
If you are addicted to busy-ness or didn't know you were until you read this blog- life coaching could really help and support you -all jokes aside - it's a powerful thing and something I can highly recommend and it just so happens that this is what I can offer for the Coach Me Service
I am never surprised at how overwhelmed the majority of my clients feel and how it affects not only their lives but their family, circle of friends and work colleagues. Too many frazzled folks out there, doing it solo. Now is the time to look at what support is the right support for YOU and filter out the unimportant stuff and declutter your life. Free telephone consultations are here for you - to arrange one simply email firstname.lastname@example.org
BOARD OF VISION
A vision board is for life and not just for the New Year, so I was delighted to be asked to give a presentation on 'Vision Boards for Business' by The Oxted Networking Group
Here I am, with some shameless self promotion on behalf of Psychologies magazine #ambassador.
I have a lot to thank Psychologies magazine for, mainly the much-needed inspiration at a time in my 'midlife' when I thought my world had fallen apart. I turned a page and out leapt my business idea. The rest as they say, is history.
In January 2017 a featured article about Vision Boards motivated me to create one for ME. The end result was so powerful and inspiring that, with a bit more research, reading, sticking, glueing and glittering, I started to offer Vision Board Training as part of my repertoire.
Always happy to offer one to one sessions for Boarding or talks and demos too. Check out my info on Vision Boards -
How we laughed when we spoke about phrases that go over others people's heads (mainly our children) as I pointed to the then empty board next to the completed board and uttered that 40 plusser significant phrase 'and here's one I made earlier' Blue Peter STYLE
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